What is the dress code?

Our celebration will be traditional black tie and we can’t wait to see everyone looking their best!

For gentlemen, this means a tuxedo, dinner jacket with a formal shirt, bow tie and polished dress shoes.

For ladies, we suggest floor-length gowns, elegant mid-length dresses, or a sophisticated jumpsuit. Formal hat or fascinator encouraged.

October in Surrey can be cool in the evenings, so we recommend bringing a wrap, shawl, or tailored jacket for comfort.

Can I bring my children?

We are deeply grateful to our loved ones traveling from near and far to celebrate with us. Due to venue capacity, we kindly request an adult-only celebration, with the exception of babes in arms.

How do I get to Stoke D’Abernon?

Stoke D’Abernon is located in Surrey, England, about 45 minutes from central London. The nearest train station is Cobham & Stoke D’Abernon, with direct trains from London Waterloo. For those driving, there is ample parking at the venue.

How do you pronounce Stoke D’Abernon?

It’s pronounced Stoke DAB-uh-nun — the “D’” is very soft, and the last syllable sounds like “nun.”

Is the ceremony and reception at the same location?

No, the ceremony will be held at St Mary's Church, Stoke D'Abernon and reception will be held at De Vere Horsley Estate. They are about 15-18 minutes from each other. We’ll have some transportation available from the church to the venue. We’ll share all the details closer to the date so you can relax and enjoy the celebration.